Grid papers have straight lines and right angles, which are able to make me feel safe and contained due to their symmentry. On top of that, they do not stand out as a shape, which evoked a sense of stability and assurance. I can glide my hand across the blank grid paper without feeling “the blank page” syndrome.
Category: On Idea
Cause we are a possessive bunch of mammals who are born with an insanely high amount of insecurity. We need to have things to call our own, thus we invent locks to shut them away from our parents, our partners, our kids and etc~
Statistics have shown that feelings of authenticity in a relationship seem to arise not from being our actual selves in the relationship, but from feeling that we can be our best or ideal self. That’s sound like a good deal.
In layman terms, it means I love you so much that I want to tie you down with responsibility and commitment. So this is the tricky part, you gotta enjoy the process of being tied down. If not it will be a living hell every day trying to shoulder this responsibility.